One small but bracing example that Bunny related to me was about the renowned poet Robert Lowell, who ran into the two women one afternoon Bunny didnt say whereand asked, Could I have dinner with you girls? clearly imagining that of course they would want to do so, as almost anyone else might have. In May 2000, Bunny's daughter from her first marriage, Eliza Lloyd, was crossing the street in Manhattan when she was hit by a truck, suffering a severe brain injury. Some may find the pacing too leisurely, and the book is at its best when Mellons curious personality comes out in full. the fact that you are splashed in the Daily News, she wrote to accompany a piece about RFKs funeral that she mailed to Bunny. Paul Mellon once told The Washington Post, "The thing I envy about Bunny is that from the age of 5 or 6, her whole life has been occupied by horticulture, by one consuming thing." Bunny made her debut in October 1929 and three years later married the socially connected Stacy Lloyd Jr. Small wonder that Bunny and Jackie Kennedy, introduced in 1957, would become confidantes. She had been raised in a family that believed a woman should not advertise herself, and yet its clear that she wanted some sort of recognition for the importance of her work, especially for the Rose Garden. A Cape Cod estate formerlyowned by socialite Rachel Bunny Lambert Mellon has been sold for $19 million. They could move, manipulate, and cutwith finality. She designed and planted a number of significant gardens, including the White House Rose Garden, and assembled one of the largest collections of rare horticultural books. Sometimes Bunny felt very alone in her effort to maintain this balance. . Through it all, she never sought publicity. Mac Griswold is the author of The Manor: Three Centuries at a Slave Plantation on Long Island, Washington's Gardens at Mount Vernon, and The Golden Age of American Gardens. When Jackie Kennedy decided to revive the grounds surrounding the White House, she reached out to her friend and horticulturalist Rachel Bunny Mellon to carry out the redesign. A key issue: did Edwards solicit the money to salvage his presidential campaign, or was this an attempt to prevent is cancer-stricken wife, Elizabeth, from learning of the romance? Huffman, who introduced Mellon to Edwards, said the former presidential candidate reminded her of John Kennedy. Bunny Lloyd made a condolence call; Mellon wrote that she was "very kind and understanding over my distress." She was also a great landscape and interior designer at the intersection of history and style. [22], She maintained homes in Antigua, Nantucket and Oyster Harbors, Cape Cod, two apartments in Paris, and a townhouse in New York City. She says she was drawn to him by "his very deep intelligence. [18] Mellon created more open space for public ceremonies and introduced American species of plants, as well as Magnolia soulangeana. The estate formerly belonged to Mellons grandsonThomas Lloyd, who made the decision to sell the home. Bunny considered white to be the most significant color. Then her daughter was fatally hit in a car accident, and she threw herself even deeper into her career. Courtesy Oak Spring Garden Library. She was not looking for an ambassadorial appointment, Huffman said. 2023 NYP Holdings, Inc. 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Outspoken: Bunny Mellon (left) is seen here with her stepdaughter Eliza Lloyd in 1964. The two women took to one another at once. That funny, sharp-eyedand boldobservation was what won over the wary Bunny, and before long she agreed to help Jackie with her Georgetown house, with the White House Rose Garden, and with the restoration of the presidential mansion itself. The estate on the private islandof Oyster Harbors overlooksNantucket Sound and Marthas Vineyard. [2][3] Her paternal grandfather, chemist Jordan Lambert, was the inventor of Listerine, which was later marketed by her father. "It's a crush." His affairs were an open secret. Bunny Mellon is aristocratic American history personified, a woman who has entertained two generations of British royalty (Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip in 1957 and, three decades later, Charles and Di), lent her jet and accompanied Jackie Kennedy to Martin Luther King Jr.'s funeral, gardened in clothes designed by Givenchy, and searched the world for art treasures with an open checkbook and an astute eye. Griswold has mined Bunny Mellons personal archives for journal entries, poems, and photographs. You are a poet like Emily Dickinson in your gardens, in your houses, in the way you see nature and all of life. 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For Bunnys 69th, Jackie gave her an illustrated edition of Emily Dickinsons poems. They often painted together on Cape Cod: in the Garden Library at the bottom of stairs to Bunnys study hangs a summery watercolor of a pale blue hydrangea in a pot. She created another White House garden that was named in honor of Kennedy after her death. We may earn commission on some of the items you choose to buy. But so great a talent could not remain forever hidden and neither will yours. Once the war ended, as Paul Mellon wrote in his autobiography, Reflections in a Silver Spoon, both men found it difficult to resume married life. Mellons attorney said she had no idea the money was going to hide a mistress. Raphael, Sandra, Heins, Greg, Tomasi, Lucia Tongiorgi, and Willis, Tony. [27], Mellon's second husband, Paul Mellon, died in 1999, aged 91. . . I have so much to do.". In a 2010 interview, she spoke of having purchased a total of thirteen works by Rothko. But there was more to the story: her gardens were an escape. Crocker would not reveal who the buyers were, only that they hadseveral other Cape properties and are extremely private. Mellon believed a ladys name should only appear in the newspaper three times: for her debut, her marriage and her obituary, Huffman said. More prosaically, Jackie and Bunnys shared foundation of WASP taste and attitudes included a dedication (an idealized postWorld War I preoccupation) to husband and home, an attitude that reached its apogee in America in the 1950s. But Mellon struck up new life-affirming friendships with much younger, artistic men. As Jackie Kennedy's closest confidante, she helped decorate the White House, redesigned the Rose Garden, presided over the floral arrangements for JFK's bier, and remained an intimate to the first lady until Jackie's death. Bunnys actual reimmersion in politics had come in November 1960 in the presidential election, when she voted as a Virginian for Kennedy, although she apparently didnt change her party affiliation and become a Democrat until she met Richard Nixon in 1972. Bunny tolerated his paramours, even inviting one mistress to join them at their Antigua estate. Huffman said his friend remained in good spirits despite the Edwards distraction. My grandmother began a multi-year renovation of the main house beginning in 1978, Lloyd told House Beautiful. Rachel "Bunny" Lambert Mellon 29, one of Foxcrofts oldest and most illustrious alumnae, died Monday (March 17) at her home in Fauquier County, VA. She She was 103. "I don't think she's been gullible." I want to come back. Another note from Jackie that Bunny inserted into one of her little blue daily datebooks went the other way, with Jackie comforting her friend about some problem and telling her, Dont worry, we will just beat the world back again., When in 1989 Jackie looked back at their years as friends, she wrote, Ever since Ive known you (33 years ago this spring) you have meant as much to me as any person in my life. Thanking Bunny for her love and care, her wise and strong support, and for all she had meant to the Kennedy children, Jackie closed with, I want you to be as happy as you make me.. A family thats been in the area for a couple of generations purchased the property. The life she's led was all about that kind of thing. His view of his grandmother's relationship with Edwards? She was 103 years old. At the time, what kept most of us from seeing the dowdiness was the luster of glamour conveyed by Jackies trim, big-shouldered, athletic figure and then, in rapid hindsight, the burnished armor of tragedy. Lloyd reiterates that John Edwards remains in his grandmother's good graces. Bunny Mellon, ne Rachel Lowe Lambert, was not just a social figure. According to the indictment, Huffman signed over the checks to Young. Bunny Mellon has outlived most of her intimates. She quickly divorced her husband, and in May 1948 she and Mellon wed. Her social climbing didnt always follow an easy path. Jackie Kennedy and Bunny Mellon in Paris together in the 1960s. Even before she married Paul Mellon a philanthropist, [25], On November 10, 2014, items from Mellon's collection of paintings, jewelry, furniture, and decorative objects were auctioned at Sotheby's in New York for a total of $158.7 million, including Untitled (Yellow, Orange, Yellow, Light Orange) by Rothko, which sold for $36.5 million, and another Rothko that went for $39.9 million. UPPERVILLE, Va. Rachel Bunny Mellon, a wealthy arts and fashion patron, friend of first lady Jacqueline Kennedy and political benefactor who funneled hundreds of thousands of dollars to former presidential candidate John Edwards that was used to hide his mistress, died Monday. Through it all, she remains an enthusiastic defender of the former North Carolina senator. Mellon also was known for her exquisite taste both in fashion and in decorating. 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After his death in 1975, it was probably no accident that Jackie turned to Bunnys lawyer, Alexander Forger, to secure $200 million, far more than Onassis had [10][24] The painting measured 10 by 15 feet. One weekend in June, she beamed as her 3-year-old great-granddaughter, Fiona, put stickers all over her arms. Between all buildings are eight separate fireplaces. I agreed but said, But she had to dress for Peoria. Wendy, who knew Jackie well, shot back, She didnt know there was a Peoria.. A self-taught botanist, Mellon was tapped by her friend Jacqueline Kennedy to design the White House Rose Garden. Friends said Mellon should be remembered more for her contributions to the world of horticulture, art and fashion than the scandal that marked her last years. Astor Regrets. At the time of her death, she had two grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. Bunny Mellon was passionate about gardening, horses and art, all of which could be enjoyed at the Mellon family property, Oak Spring Farms, a 4000-acre estate, in Upperville, Virginia. MANHATTAN Listerine heiress and philanthropist Rachel 'Bunny' Mellon has preferred to shun the media spotlight since long before her financial largesse became tangled up in the John Edwards mistress scandal. She was eulogized by her friend Frank Langella, who described himself as "a rough Jersey kid" whom Mellon taught "how to listen, dress, never be vulgar, respect all people, be humble, avoid hubris, write thank-you notes, never boast, be curious and 'above all, be loyal'". While .css-gegin5{-webkit-text-decoration:underline;text-decoration:underline;text-decoration-thickness:0.0625rem;text-decoration-color:inherit;text-underline-offset:0.25rem;color:#9a0500;-webkit-transition:all 0.3s ease-in-out;transition:all 0.3s ease-in-out;}.css-gegin5:hover{color:#595959;text-decoration-color:border-link-body-hover;}Bunny was coming to grips with the changes in her marriage, she met the woman who would become her best friend, Jackie Kennedy, wife of the dashing junior senator from Massachusetts. In particular, feds were interested in the $700,000 in funds Mellon allegedly made out to Edwards' campaign in the form of blank checks annotated "furniture," the Daily Beast said. According to Bunny, Jackie said coolly, Absolutely not. Lowell then said, Well, what are you going to do? Jackie answered him by saying, Well, weve got it all planned, and that was that.. She minded her own life and she felt deeply . All rights reserved. [15][16], Although she had no formal training, Mellon read widely in horticulture and made contributions to several landmark gardens. WARRENTON, Va. Rachel "Bunny" Mellon left a small island to the Massachusetts Audubon Society, a library to an unspecified charity, jewelry to a former first daughter, and $20 million in cash along with artwork and real estate to Stacy B. Lloyd III, her son by her first marriage. Ever since she married Paul Mellon in 1948, she has been consumed by turning his Virginia farm into a magnificent showcase. The Rose Garden would go on to become a place where President John F. Kennedy and presidents after him hosted significant events. This could have made for a grim existence. The public life is above water& the private lifeis submergedI flatter myself that I have made his private life something he can love & find peace incomfortable smoothly run houseswith all the things he loves in thempictures, books, good food, friends& his daughter & wife geared to adapt to his hours when he comes home. Bunny gave Jackie confidence in her chosen role, helped her enhance the presidents home even more, and provided her a friendship like no other. He claims, "Bunny and I were the last people on earth who knew about the girlfriend and the baby. (The Kennedy biographer Sally Bedell Smith quotes Jackie as saying to Ted Kennedys wife, Joan, All Kennedy men are like that . She also said that she ran interference with the Kennedys regarding Onassis before Jackies 1968 marriage to him. [28] Shortly thereafter, in May 2000, her daughter Eliza was hit by a truck while crossing a Manhattan street, causing a severe brain injury and full-body paralysis. 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